Betrayal Trauma Therapy in Pennsylvania

Healing from Infidelity • Relational Betrayal • Gaslighting • Institutional Betrayal
Secure Telehealth Across Pennsylvania + In-Person in Lancaster

Advanced Counseling and Research Services
Office Location & Hours (Lancaster)
313 W Liberty St STE 224, Lancaster, PA 17603
Mon–Thu 9am–7pm |
Fri 9am–5pm

What Is Betrayal Trauma?

Betrayal trauma occurs when someone we deeply trust or depend upon violates that trust — through infidelity, emotional manipulation, gaslighting, financial deceit, or institutional betrayal. This shatters our sense of safety and often triggers intense grief, rage, shame, and nervous system dysregulation.

At ACRS we approach betrayal trauma through the lens of psychotraumatology, helping clients restore internal safety, rebuild self-trust, and decide what healthy connection looks like moving forward.

Common Effects of Betrayal Trauma

  • Shattered trust and hypervigilance in relationships
  • Intense grief, rage, or emotional numbness
  • Self-doubt and gaslighting after-effects
  • Anxiety, depression, or obsessive rumination
  • Physical symptoms – insomnia, tension, digestive issues
  • Identity confusion – “Who am I without this relationship?”
  • Difficulty trusting your own judgment

Why Pennsylvania Clients Choose ACRS for Betrayal Trauma Healing

  • Clinicians specially trained in betrayal trauma and psychotraumatology
  • Gentle, phased approach that honors your nervous system’s need for safety
  • Evidence-based modalities proven effective for relational trauma
  • Statewide secure telehealth + supportive Lancaster office
  • Focus on rebuilding self-trust, boundaries, and discernment
  • Free 10-minute consultation so you can feel safe before committing

Our Specialized Betrayal Trauma Treatment Modalities

We create personalized plans that support every stage of recovery:

  • EMDR Therapy – reprocess the betrayal memories and negative core beliefs
  • Brainspotting Therapy – release the deep body-held shock and pain of betrayal
  • DBT Skills Groups – build distress tolerance and interpersonal effectiveness
  • Somatic Experiencing & Polyvagal-informed therapy – restore safety in the nervous system
  • Attachment repair and boundary development work
  • Grief processing and post-traumatic growth support

Frequently Asked Questions About Betrayal Trauma Therapy

Is betrayal trauma as serious as other forms of trauma?

Yes. Betrayal by someone close activates the same survival responses as life-threatening events and can have profound, long-lasting effects.

How long does recovery from betrayal trauma usually take?

Healing timelines vary. Many clients experience significant relief in 12–24 sessions, with continued growth in trust and self-worth over time.

Can therapy help even if the relationship ended?

Absolutely. Betrayal trauma work focuses on your healing and future safety, regardless of whether the relationship continues.

Is telehealth effective for betrayal trauma?

Yes. Many clients feel safer processing this deeply personal pain from the comfort and privacy of home.

Our Betrayal Trauma Specialists Serving Pennsylvania

Cheryl Wilson-Smith
Chief Executive Officer

Cheryl Wilson-Smith

"For over 20 years I have walked with clients through the devastating pain of betrayal trauma. Using a psychotraumatology-informed approach with EMDR, Brainspotting, and deep relational repair work, we help restore self-trust, safety, and the possibility of healthy connection again. You are not alone — and healing after betrayal is absolutely possible."

— Cheryl Wilson-Smith, LPC, Chief Executive Officer & Certified Traumatologist

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Cady R. Monasmith
Chief Clinical Officer

Cady Monasmith
  • Licensed Professional Counselor (PA-015668)
  • Certified Dialectical Behavioral Therapist (C-DBT)
  • Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP)

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Additional clinicians trained in psychotraumatology and betrayal trauma recovery are available for telehealth and in-person sessions.

You Can Heal After Betrayal

The pain of betrayal does not have to define your future. Reclaim your trust, your voice, and your peace.

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